Sunday, March 9, 2008

MacBook 2.0

Hahaha. I'm using my new macBook 2.0 which I got without knowing all the specs. All I knew when I got it was that it was 40% cheaper than the one my son got a year ago and it had a Leopard OS. What's that? It's supposed to faster than the tiger OS. What does that mean? Who knows? Certainly, not I.

Funny because I was a bit apprehensive that my son would feel short-changed when he saw my MacBook, although he knew I was getting one, if he saw it had higher specs than his. He was jubilant, it has lower specs: 80GB as opposed to 120MB, no DVD writer, just a reader, etc. Do I care? not really because I never had use for the DVD writer in my previous laptop. yes it had that but no bluetooth or infrared. Win some, lose some.

As usual, I got this from Mobile 1 in the Podium where the cashier knows us. We always feel welcome at the store.

There I saw this cute contraption, it's circular and looks like a springy stress ball but is supposed to be a speaker for things like Ipods, PSPs, etc. Costs 1200 pesos and I might get it rather than a real speaker system. Sometimes I fear turning deaf from listening to my Ipod using earphones. Next time I go to Podium I will. They also have this Lego speaker but my husband said it doesn't register sound well.

I'll be back in a spell. want to tweak this new toy which has such colorful icons at the bottom.

After Sales Service

Last year,when my husband and I were looking for a PSP for my son, we chanced upon what we thought was the best store we could find: Mobile Care on the 3rd floor of V Mall. The owner, a bespectacled young man, was friendly. He consulted an assistant re PSP games occasionally, while assuring us that after our purchase of the PSP unit, we could just drop by his store any time so he could load the games my son wanted. At the time we purchased the unit, our son wasn't with us because the unit was supposed to be a surprise for him.

But the surprise was on us. Weeks later, we visited the store with my son so he could have some games loaded. The owner wasn't around, sorry. Fine. The next time we came, he was there, my son wasn't with us. He said, just tell your son to download the following games from this website. We went home, his suggestion didn't work.

Yesterday, we went back to his shop, he wasn't there again. So much for free after sales service. Never again at Mobile Care. Beware of Greeks bearing gifts.

So we hied off to E2G Game Zone, also on the third floor of V Mall. A Filipino assistant attended to us very politely and then said after we had arranged with him what should be done to come back after 30 minutes. His boss would take care of putting the games in the memory stick. We returned to the shop before the end of 30 minutes and while the Chinese boss,another young man hadn't finished loading the games, he was competent. He knew what he was doing and even found viruses in the memory card we had bought a year ago. Not serious ones, he assured. His goods (gam stuff like Wii, PSP, PS2, PS3)were reasonably priced, much lower than in SM PowerPlant, Mobile 1,etc. And again, he knew what he was doing. He didn't have to ask questions of his staff. Hopefully he doesn't end up being like the "Greek" of Mobile Care. He assured me we could come back if my son encountered any problems with the games we "bought". yes, we had to pay but at least we didn't have to contend with the stress of waiting for someone who promised free games but didn't deliver because he was either not around or too lazy.

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When I told my son of the owner of E2G he said, "you know, that's a career option for me." I said,"I thought of that too,but you'd need a lot of capital to set up such a store." But my son can dream, can't he? And dream big...

Friday, March 7, 2008

Just a short one ---I think--- on Philippine politics

yesterday, I got this text message: "Rodolfo `Jun' Lozada for president. Pls pass."

the phone didn't register a name, just a number. But I couldn't resist texting back, "Are you serious?" I was being kind. What I really wanted to text back was "Are you joking?" I didn't get a reply at any rate.

Please... while I'm glad he let out all the secrets re the government deals, that is certainly not enough to convince me to think he will make a good Philippine president. So of course I didn't pass on the text. Hello. Sure, Jesus Christ said "He who is without sin may cast the first stone" but aren't there any Filipinos around who are clean or at least cleaner than Jun Lozada? Who haven't enriched themselves in office, who don't/didn't have a mistress and 3 children?

Oh boy...... can't we do better than this? Can't we have someone more morally upright> That the nuns, brothers and priests protect him has apparently sent the signal that he's okay? That it's all right to have him for president?

Sad.......

Thursday, March 6, 2008

Shorts

My grade 4 tutee just left. Before he did, he danced Solja boy for me. How cute. This despite my being impatient with him when while answering the reviewer I prepared, he kept asking me for the answers to them. I told him to read the book and look there instead. I asked him to do that not only so he'll find the answers himself, but also so he might see other information he needs to know.

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Remember Alyssa Alano, the lady who gained fame after her MTV singing Kiss Me was beamed on YouTube? Now, watch her heir apparent. Unbelievable

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Just finished watching the 20 or so episodes of Spring Waltz. While it dragged occasionally, it still won't stop me from watching more Koreanovelas which are visually and culturally satisfying. The music, as usual, was tops in that a lot of it was classical. The visuals made me dream of going to Austria (though the subtitles always said Australia) and South Korea.

One of the characters, Bili (sic), is GQ handsome. Think Illac Diaz.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Life in the US


Got this from our e-group. I wrote back to the one who shared: This is so up-front. May I post it in my blog? My husband's co-teacher is leaving for the US soon, while a few of those who left have come back. Only this morning Dan wondered out loud how the one leaving feels when he sees the returnees.



Note: the comment below came with the email. It isn't MY comment.


HAY, BUHAY AMERICA TALAGA
> A friend named 'Maeng Ni' posted this.
> Lahat ng sinabi niya nakakatuwa at totoo.
>
>
> Akala ng mga tao na nasa Pilipinas kapag nasa America ka akala nila
madami ka ng pera. Ang totoo, madami kang utang, dahil credit card
lahat ang gamit mo sa pagbili mo ng mga gamit mo. Kailangan mo
gumamit ng credit card para magka-credit history ka, kase pag hindi
ka umutang o wala kang utang, hindi ka pagkakatiwalaan ng mga kano .
Pag wala kang credit card, ibig sabihin wala kang kapasidad magbayad.
>
> Akala nila mayaman ka na kase may kotse ka na. Ang totoo, kapag
hindi ka bumili ng kotse sa America maglalakad ka ng milya-milya sa
ilalim ng init ng araw o kaya sa snow. Walang jeepney, tricycle o
padyak sa America ..
>
> Akala nila masarap ang buhay dito sa America . Ang totoo, puro ka
trabaho kase pag di ka nagtrabaho, wala kang pangbayad ng bills mo sa
kotse, credit card, ilaw, tubig, insurance, bahay at iba pa. Hindi ka
na pwedeng tumambay sa kapitbahay kase busy din sila maghanap buhay
pangbayad ng bills nila.
>
> Akala nila masaya ka kase nagpadala ka ng picture mo sa Disneyland,
Seaworld, Six Flags, Universal Studios at iba pang attractions. Ang
totoo, kailangan mo ngumiti kase nagbayad ka ng $70+ para makarating
ka dun, kailangan mo na naman ang 10 hours na sweldo mong
> pinangbayad sa ticket.
>
> Akala nila malaki na ang kinikita mo kase dolyar na sweldo mo. Ang
totoo, malaki pagpinalit mo ng peso, pero dolyar din ang gastos mo sa
America. Ibig sabihin ang dolyar mong kinita sa presyong dolyar mo
din gagastusin. Ang P15.00 na sardinas sa Pilipinas $1.00 sa
America , ang isang pakete ng sigarilyo sa pilipinas P40.00, sa
> America $ 6.50, ang upa mo sa bahay na P10,000 sa Pilipinas, sa
America $1,000+.
>
> Akala nila buhay milyonaryo ka na kase ang ganda ng bahay at kotse
mo. Ang totoo milyon ang utang mo. Ang bago mong kotse 5 taon mong
huhulugan. Ang bahay 30 taon mong huhulugan. Ibig sabihin, alipin ka
ng bahay at kotse mo.
>
> Madaming naghahangad na makarating sa America . Lalo na mga nurses,
mahirap maging normal na manggagawa sa Pilipinas. Madalas pagod ka sa
trabaho. Pag dating ng sweldo mo, kulang pa sa pagkain mo. Pero ganun
> din sa ibang bansa katulad ng America .
> Hindi ibig sabihin dolyar na ang sweldo mo, yayaman ka na,
kailangan mo ding magbanat ng buto para mabuhay ka sa ibang bansa.
>
> Isang malaking sakripisyo ang pag alis mo sa bansang pinagsilangan
at malungkot iwanan ang mga mahal mo sa buhay.Hindi pinupulot ang
pera dito o pinipitas. Hindi ako naninira ng pangarap, gusto ko lang
buksan ang bintana ng katotohanan.
>
> comment ko:
> Hindi yung actual living condition sa amerika ang importante sa
Pinoy. Ang pinakamahalaga ay makapunta sa fantasyland sapagkat diyan
namulat ang nga Pilipino simula pa nung kanilang grade school. Gusto
nilang makasakay sa eroplano at mamuhay sa kapaligiran ng snow,
hamon, keso, mansanas, ubas at maipakita sa mga pinoy sa Pilipinas na
naabot na niya ang paraisong nagbibigay ng credit. Hindi masamang
mangarap pero hanggang dito na lang yata ang pangarap ng mga Pilipino.
>
> Kung tutuusin, sino nga ba ang gustong maiwan sa Pilipinas sa mga
kurakot na officials? Hirap ka na sa trabaho, wala ka pang pambili
ng Oakley, pizza at iPod.

Monday, March 3, 2008

Bullying

When my son was in the grade school, he was chubby and cute. But that led to a lot of teasing from his classmates. And one such occasion really hurt him. We shared that hurt.

His friend drew a pig in the thank you card my son prepared for the class to sign for their teacher at the end of the school year. So what was wrong with that? well, beside the pig, he drew an arrow pointing to my son's name. My son came home crying, angry. That was the first time I saw him livid, thrashing his legs, his feet. He was, like us, particularly hurt because it was a friend who had done it. My husband called the attention of the grade level coordinator who promptly scolded my son's friend. The card my son had so painstakingly prepared ended up crumpled, in the trash can of my husband's office in school. My husband picked it up and gave it to the GLC to show the misdeed.

A few years later, his teacher told us that he cried after the son of a comedian called him baboy. He was older then and didn't come home crying. We wouldn't have known about this had his teacher not told us. One classmate of his who was similarly big told him, "hayaan mo sila. sabihin mo, `at least may nakakain kami.'"

Another time, he had a text message from a classmate which I accidentally opened. It referred to him again, as baboy. I texted back his classmate and identified myself. Since then that classmate couldn't look me in the eye. On the other hand, the one who had caused my son to shed tears was, I think, aware how angry I was at him because initially, I would turn my head away each time I saw him. But he never gave up, greeting me. He even kisses me now when he sees me, I guess to show he's sorry for that hurt. In my son's multiply account he also apologized recently when my son mentioned the hurt.

Name calling, pardon the language, sucks. So I always tell my tutees not to do it, the way I did my son and continue to do so now. It can destroy the self-esteem of the sensitive, even the seemingly brazen. What causes it?

Perhaps, the article below which was forwarded me in the email will help explain the phenomenon... Soon as I received it, I posted it in the egroup of our batch in the hope that it would curtail the propensity of young people, via reminders from their parents, to be mean. I also sent a copy to the mother of my tutees so she could remind her sons and support my cause. Because that is what name calling amounts to: being mean. And it is needless and destructive, to say the least. Sadly it persists, even in the Senate. Witness how the senators ask questions during Senate hearings.


VIEWPOINT
Bullies with diplomas

By Juan Mercado
Inquirer
Last updated 00:37am (Mla time) 07/13/2006

Published on Page A10 of the July 13, 2006 issue of the Philippine
Daily Inquirer

POLITICAL bullies are usually skinned in this section of the Inquirer.
But this column is about school bullies, real ones -- and how their
cruelty blights lives long after diplomas start to fade.

At the Ateneo de Manila University last week, Prof. Onofre Pagsanjan
told his students that he attended the wake for Ramon Cordero Salvosa,
32. Who?

Many Ateneans today know Benjamin Salvosa III. He authored the
textbook: "Called to Discover Our Christian Roots." He teaches a
course, titled: "Living in a World of Lights and Shadows," about
living in a world of good, marred by evil. But Ramon?

Actually, Ramon belonged to an amazing Ateneo honors class, Pagsanjan
recalled. When there'd be Reading of Honors ceremonies, often the
whole class mounted the stage. Ramon was No. 2 in that demanding cluster.

That was expected. In grade school, he'd tick off names of the US and
Philippine presidents, in chronological order, tossing in their middle
names. "In grade school," Benjie remembers, "when the teachers saw us
they would say, `Look, there's Ramon Salvosa and his brother.'"

In Grade 7, two transfer students joined this exceptional class. They
too were bright. But they were also bullies who tormented classmates
as nerds and weaklings. And they picked on the two brightest students:
the overweight clumsy Ramon and the class president.

"Intelligence, unfortunately, does not mean kindness," Benjie writes.
Those who were more intelligent and privileged can sometimes be
crueler than the average person.

One of the two withstood the bullying and graduated from college at
the top of his batch, Pagsanjan said. "The other, Ramon, was broken
for life." He simply could not cope with unprovoked cruelty and
drifted from school to school. "The psychological wounds of his trauma
never healed." Only within his family did he feel safe from the
jeering and bruising.

A battered Ramon left the Ateneo, and settled in their quiet family
home in the Philam Homes subdivision in Quezon City. He'd spend hours
reading and writing in his father's office. In those years, "we got to
know the real Ramon -- a gentle soul that couldn't harm a fly and
content with his books and long walks," Benjie said. And he "would
walk for hours on end on his good days," Pagsanjan said. "But on the
bad days, he would hear the taunting and jeering and ridiculing all
over again. This went on for over 18 years of his life."

Ramon just didn't know how to fight back. And his classmates, teachers
and school administrators did everything they could to stop the
bullying, Benjie says. "But even they couldn't watch Ramon every
minute of the day. He could not function like before. After a while,
it became clear to us that he may never be able to return to school
and be the way he was."

At his wake, Ateneo Honors Class 1989 class president -- now Francis
Alvarez of the Society of Jesus -- told Ramon's mother, Carmen: "Mrs.
Salvosa, I'm very sorry and would like to apologize that we were not
able to assist and shield Ramon from the bullies that tormented him at
the grade school. I was also a target of those same bullies. They used
to lock me in the rest room."

"The darkness that had engulfed Ramon led him to regard his home here
in PhilAm and the park here where he walked every day, as an enclave,
a sanctuary where no one would hurt him any further," his father Jerry
said.

"That was the boy we lost: so exuberant, so spontaneous and so keen
about learning," his father added in the family response after the
funeral Mass. We lost … the promise of a life that was supposed to be
a joyful journey into an unlimited world of learning."

Periodically, in those 18 crippled years, darkness would sweep over
Ramon. The voices of his tormentors screamed through his head. In that
recurring dark night, there'd be two lights for Ramon.

"My father, Jerry, was always present to him and there for him,"
Benjie recalls. The other was my mother Carmen who took care of him
day and night. Every night, she'd check on Ramon. If ill, she'd pray
the rosary over him."

In the last two weeks of his life, darkness swept over Ramon. The old
cruel jeers re-echoed unceasingly in his head. For 18 years, Ramon's
mother patiently brought him to confession. Now, Carmen convinced him
to go to the sacrament of reconciliation, this time to specifically
forgive the tormentors who still haunted him. "I have forgiven them,"
he said after what was to be his last confession.

"With hindsight, we wish we had told Ramon, that these were the times
to act instinctively, just like an angry dog," the father told those
gathered for the wake.

"In times of peace, sons bury their fathers," my father would often
say. "In times of war, fathers bury their sons. There must be a war.
Because I had just buried my son today, dead at the hands of violent
men. There must be a war…. It is the war that Ramon could not
comprehend or grasp: a war against unprovoked, deliberate cruelty and
viciousness."

In an admirable expression of constrained grief, Pagsanjan told his
class. "Our Father in heaven must have looked down with much
gentleness and love on this grieving father. God, the Father, would
understand him. For He too had a son who was bullied on the cross."

Friends and Ateneo students today ask the Salvosas: How do you feel?
"Of course, we're sad and miss seeing him around," they reply. "But at
the same time, we are happy because he'll never hear those voices
again: no more hurt, no more pain. It means Ramon will never fall into
the darkness again and forever be in the light."

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Sunday, March 2, 2008

Here and there. Odds and ends. Something and nothing.

As the title of this entry says, something and nothing. The past week was busy in the sense that I had a tutee for two days and two tutees for one day. The week just past virtually wraps up my tutoring days for schoolyear 2007-2008. This means I'll not have any work until who knows when. Editing has been scarce/sparse of late. I'm free, virtually free to do what I want and when. Do I welcome it? Yes and no. It can be very boring to have no set things to do, but it can be exciting too. This entry seems to be one of contrasts, ambivalence, uncertainty. Where is this headed?

At any rate, it appears that I'll be typing random thoughts, random events in no particular order. Where do I start?

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Last night, an elated son, my son, texted me thus: "Pauwi na kami, we're at libis, we won buzzer beater. We qualify for finals:)". What was he referring to?

Months back when Joey was around, he, my son and a number of freshmen formed the ABN Team (to signify their having come from sections A, B and N of batch 2007) to compete in the ABL League. They were excited, but never practiced as an entire team. Yet somehow they gel. Then the accident happened and snuffed the life of one and sidelined three others, leaving a lean team that is never complete come game time. Last night, the semi-finals, there were just 5 of them. Earlier my son and I were arguing about his attending the game. Friday night he slept past midnight, ergo he slept Saturday morning. By 7 a.m., he was off to manage a competition for public school students, came back at 3 past and had to go to McDo to meet up with his teammates for the game by 4. I said, "Can't you be absent?" He said, "No because if I am we lose by default." I argued, "Why can your teammates be absent and you not?" He countered, "because we'll lose by default if I'm absent." I again said, "So it's ok for them to be absent but not for you because you'll lose by default?" He then said, "I want to play." I said, "Now that's the answer I want to hear." If it were a matter of the others being absent and it was okay, then why not for him to be absent? With just 5 of them playing the entire game, they won, with a lot of help from their angels, I'm sure and possibly, Joey, from up high. Finals will be this Saturday but my son will miss that as he'll have his PE final exam in guess what? Tap dance. How's that for variety...

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This a.m., we commissioned the Wheelmobile to take us to mass. Sure we could have heard mass in the parish and saved on pesos, but Hangad was singing in the church in Mira Nila, at the Our Lady of Consolation Parish. So we rode the Wheelmobile to the church which luckily had a driveway and just one step to negotiate. We were early.

As the church slowly filled up, we saw Aniano Desierto and family (wife, son and daughter?), plus two bodyguards. Burly men who were constantly looking everywhere for snipers. Just kidding, but really they were looking around a lot. Then shortly before the offertory procession, saw Noli and Arlene de Castro walking to the back of the church, again with two bodyguards. I thought they were leaving until I saw them walk to the table with the things to be offered (water and wine, etc). No, the bodyguards didn't join the offertory procession. Noli was clad in an aqua T-shirt with a collar, his wife was in a shirt and skirt. Nothing ostentatious there, thank God. We also saw a couple who were friends from college. They live in the area which explained their presence. We'll see them again on the 15th as Hangad will have a concert at the church then.

Hangad's presence at the mass this morning was to draw people to watch their concert mid-month. My son said we were invited to lunch at a member's house after the mass, but we opted to go, as scheduled, to Bellini's in Cubao. Last week, husband brought home a magazine of Manila Bulletin and the restaurant was mentioned. I have been mentioning the same to him for years, NR (no response/no reaction). This time, as it was he who saw the article, action agad. Haha. I called to reserve a table yesterday but I needn't have. The place was not even half-filled

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Bellini's is in the Marikina Shoe Expo area in Cubao. Marikina in Cubao which looks like it did in the seventies. Correction, it looked better in the seventies when it was new. It now has the run-down feel. I remember going to the area with Mama, buying shoes, Le Chic slippers. The stores now are different, a number of them selling ukay-ukay stuff. But before going into that, let's go back to Bellini's. I'll put in some pictures here.


Bellini's has two entrances. The one we took led to an area without customers and the waiter insisted we stay in it. He turned on the aircon. No, I said, we go to the place where there were people. Why?

He had just turned on the aircon, ergo, the area was hot. Second, it had a musty smell. My son had another term for it: stuffy. I still maintain, musty. So we moved to the populated area where I hoped it would be cooler and not musty. I was wrong. Oh yes, a little cooler, but not that much cooler. But the waiters were cordial and I was hoping the smell would disappear even as my nose began to itch. It does when I don't like the smell-- cigarettes, dust(does dust smell?), etc.

The menu was a clear book with a faux leather cover. The sheets in it were printouts on bond paper with some colored pictures. No attempts to look classy whatsoever. But not long after we were at the table, a glass containing bread sticks that looked like wooden canes was put before us. At least service was quick.



We ordered a lot of stuff, I guess because we were really hungry: it was 1 pm past. Our orders included: fried mushrooms, a pizza, osso bucco with risotto, a pasta dish wrapped in foil, bruschetta, a platter of cold cuts and cheese, soft drinks.

The platter of cold cuts and cheese had several cold cuts, maybe five kinds. But the portions of cheese, parmesan we were told and my gourmand son agreed, but queso de bola, my husband and I thought, were not nicely cut. They looked like I sliced them, which means uneven. But the elements in that platter were good, the cheese included.


Then came the mushrooms. I was told they'd be fried, but foolish me imagined they'd be served like gambas, that is, floating in olive oil. But the waiter who suggested the entree was not lying, so they came fried, indeed. Fried in batter. Or rather dipped in batter and then fried. These were dried shitake mushrooms. Tasty except they weren't served with sauce.

Next came the osso bucco with risotto. wow, this was yummy. The risotto reeked of butter/margarine. It was very tasty and was served as a ring around the tender veal that swam in tomato sauce. Except that I thought there was too little of the veal, unlike in Amici. But the dish was truly good.



The bruschetta came. Four slices topped with mushroom, basil, etc. Very good.

Next the pizza came. It was huge. I didn't try it but my son said it was ordinary. The crust was white and limp, the cheese didn't stretch. Not mozzarella, apparently. My son, as a result, said, "they didn't use imported ingredients for this pizza, unlike in Terry's." My husband added, "they just bought the stuff in Farmers?" Later in the house, I took a small bite, it was ok, but not great.

The pasta in a foil was cooked in olive oil and had sea food in it: clams and mussels. It tasted fishy, like it came from the sea. That sounds so lame but I wasn't impressed by it.

When we finished the meal, we ordered dessert. My son asked for tiramisu, the waiter suggested we try the orange cake. I didn't bother to try the tiramisu because it was merely ice cream of two flavors, I think. At least it looked really frozen. But the orange cake was wow. It was heated in the oven and had sweetened orange rind and bits on top, really good.

Finally, when we were done with what we ordered, the waiter came with three tiny berr (look at that: i don't drink beer and I can't even spell it right!) mugs in a saucer: sweet dessert wine, he said. True to form, I didn't bother to taste it so I cannot provide any feedback on that freebie.

Will we go back to the restaurant? I don't know if we will. But finally, at least, my curiosity has been satisfied.

As my son pulled down my wheelchair to the road, the waiter asked if I were Visayan. I said yes and he said he was too, from Cadiz. When I said I was from Talisay, he said he bought a piece of land there, in Carmela, at first he said, then he corrected himself, in Menlo. He gave us calling cards advising us to call for reservations if we came back on a Friday or Saturday night. Then the place was usually full, he said.

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From Bellini we proceeded to the shoe stores because my son wanted to buy a cheap pair of leather shoes with leather soles for his tap dancing finals. The whole sem, he had been using an old pair of his Dad's and it was only last week that he said they were so loose, he could get a better grade if he had better-fitting shoes. I bought him insoles but when he saw the stores in Marikina Shoe Expo, he perceived shoes there wouldn't be too expensive so we looked.

We went to Mark R that had the name Bandolino on the occasional shelves. Never heard of Mark R before, Bandolino yes. They had sizes as big as 13, my son wears 12. The shoe he chose was selling at P2,200 from P2795, we were told. Their size 12 was loose for him, so after some time, a pair of size 11s was brought him. The sales clerk again asked, "ilonggo ka?" My son smiled knowingly, saying "nahalata ka nanaman." The sales clerk was from Romblon.

From Mark R, my son asked to go inside another shop which had racks of clothing. I said I'd stay outside but my husband insisted we go in as it was aircon inside -- it was sweltering hot outside. But I had a funny feeling I wouldn't enjoy the mustiness of the store. Still I conceded and when the door opened, I smelled naphthalene balls. My son was expecting he'd see stuff like we'd buy in the export overruns shops in Camp John Hay, but the clothes in Cubao looked that they had been used by someone or other. Ukay-ukay stuff. Were they filched from someone's yard/clothes lines? I wondered. I couldn't wait to go out and luckily my husband and son had the same idea.

Across we saw a Valentino shoe store, a Rusty Lopez shoe store which said SALE -- but I wasn't enticed. It was so hot really. As we circled the place from the other end, I saw a lotto stall. I had had these 3 tickets since I couldn't remember when so I had them checked. The guy was taking so long I thought I had won. Instead, he said the numbers were no longer clear. When I checked they were fathomable, but I guess he was strict. Ticket dates said October 2007. Oh well, so much for winning funds for a house of my own. hahaha. Dreaming big.

As we went back to the Wheelmobile, Arnel, the driver, told my husband he had bought a pair of shoes from Rusty Lopez's store for P1495. So ended our adventure for today.

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Tonight I read Chelo Banal-Formoso's farewell essay thanking people she had worked with as Lifestyle editor of the Inquirer. She also wrote of encounters/misencounters in line with her work. Her recounting a comment from someone, "You still eat meat?" upon seeing her bite into a kebab reminded me of my experience last Friday. Before writing about that, let me add that Chelo went on to say that Crickette Tantoco told her, "why didn't you say `go ahead and eat Nemo while I eat my meat." or something to that effect to your friend". Now I know what to say when similar remarks are directed my way.

What do I mean? It has been a long-running tradition of these two friends of mine from college to come celebrate my birthday with me, be it on the day itself, before or after, by bringing food to the house. They rib me a lot (pun unintended) because while they are into salads and fish, I'm a carnivore. This time around, though, we ate out at Cyma. I hired the Wheelmobile and along with a maid went to Shangrila. I was early so I bought some gift wrappers and ribbons from Wrap Shop before proceeding to the restaurant. I was still too early but decided to just sit by the table lest I lose it to other diners because CYma is always "waiting". But I was getting so annoyed with this mestizo pony-tailed waiter who kept egging me, "o-order na kayo?" that finally, I did, although my friends hadn't yet arrived.

I ordered mussels -- a bowl it would be, the menu said, and what a big bowl that was. Funny thing is that my non-carnivoric friends, that is, one of them isn't into mussels because she's scared to develop a bum stomach. So it was just my other friend and I who gorged on it while the non-mussel friend got the garlic bread that came along with the mussels. I let them choose the other entrees because it was their treat and I said I wanted to try stuff different from what my equally carnivorous husband and son, and I usually order.

So what did they order? Lamb chops cooked medium well -- these were tender and tasty, even my husband will enjoy it. I'm not sure about my son.It came with rice stuffed in a red bell pepper and two slices of potatoes swimming in olive oil. The other order was seared tuna salad. For a while there, I thought the tuna slices were meat because they were sliced like tenderloin and looked as reddish-brown. Very filling. I can't recall now if we ordered anything else, but we must have. Why can't I remember? Oh well...

After lunch they wanted to take coffee, and non-mussel eating friend said, "Sugar House" but lo and behold, it was no more. Figaro? Dome? We opted for Dome. One friend had coffee and the three of us shared a chocolate cake in caramel sauce. That was yummy.

After a while, I texted my maid to come and get me and she said aloud when she saw my friends, "Hello". Wow, she's less shy than me. I usually just smile quietly. Besides, what happened to "Good afternoon"? But never mind, she's too old to be chided and besides, I had told my two friends earlier that she's different from my other yaya whom they knew from way back to be quiet and polite. So they smiled and looked at me as soon as my maid said, "hello." They understood where I was coming from when I had told them what I did minutes earlier...


At any rate, I rest my case. Duhhhhhhhhh.

Now what else did they order at Cyma?????????????????